Many assume that being fit and healthy automatically guarantees finding you a girlfriend. But it isn’t that simple?
I’ll cover the benefits (and negatives) of being JACKED and the dating world.
Physical Attraction: It’s Only One Piece of the Puzzle
Obviously physical attraction plays a big role in dating because its typically the first thing many notice in others. But it’s not everything (but it helps). Of course, most people want to be with someone they find physically attractive. But personality, interests, values, and overall compatibility all come into play when getting a girlfriend.
Being Fit Won’t Make You Attractive to Everyone
Being in shape is great but just because got the “gains” doesn’t mean you’ll automatically attract a girlfriend. We all have different preferences when it comes to physical appearance, so big muscles won’t appeal to everyone. So, don’t put all your eggs in one basket. Be sure to offer more than just Abs!
Confidence and Happiness Matter More Than You Think
One of the biggest things that can improve your dating life is your level of confidence. When you’re confident and happy, you’re more likely to attract positive people into your life.
Luckily, getting in the gym and improving your body really does help boost your confidence and make you feel better about yourself. Another things that can help you gain more confidence is; pursuing your hobbies, building strong relationships with friends and family, and working on your own self-development.
The Bottom Line
Getting in shape can help improve your dating life, but it’s not a magic bullet.
- Being in shape isn’t a guarantee to find a lover!
- Pursuing your own passions and building strong relationships are important
- Strive to build a better you and you’ll likely attract someone thats attractive to more than just your muscles!